Saturday, 8 October 2022

Check-Up #24

 Ok, I've been meaning to update this for quite a while. Nothing earth shattering has happened but I would still like to add a few things. Some bullet points, I think:

  • Back to the wedding I attended a couple of months ago and I forgot to add that I was asked the immortal question by a teenager, namely 'why are you wearing a dress?' I just said that it was a wedding and left it at that. I did get serious dress envy at that wedding though, there were some gorgeous dresses I saw that day. Oh and on the flip side the groom thanked me for wearing a dress because it confused an elderly relative of his wife's that he didn't like. Glad to be of service, I guess.
  • Went out to an event after work and this involves my aforementioned habit of deciding to change at work and despite the fact that I work in a large building I've come close to running into members of my firm on a couple of occasions. This time (striped top and blue skirt as you ask so nicely. Bare legs too so I was feeling bold but it was still summer) I saw a colleague waiting at a bus stop and so snuck down the road to cross over and make it safely into the tube station. Thinking he must have gone I made it into the station and onto the down escalator...only to see him going up the opposite one. How that happened I don't know but he never said anything so I think I got away with it. I swear it's like a Whitehall farce at times
  • Went on holiday for a week and saw a dress in a charity shop. Nearly bought it but, as I was staying with my parents, I resisted. I did think of going back and had many visions of how to get it back into the house through maybe some system of hiding it in a bush or a bin or something and going back. In the end I did go back but it had gone. Always the rule of second hand shops, never leave it more than a day as it will almost always have gone. I did buy a nice dress before I went away though plus a nice necklace. 
  • In addition, I am trying to resist buying everything I see and sometimes it's hard but I must try to consider what I really, really want. Which is the true lesson of the Spice Girls. Maybe. Today however ever I did some some great stuff round the shops but if only it had been one of two sizes bigger. Shame really.
  • Brad Pitt wore a skirt so...that was that. The debate was reopened in the papers for a bit but that was about it. Not sure if it will change anything but it was nice to see such a high profile male celebrity choosing to dress differently.
  • Saw Ed Wood recently. This is a 1994 film directed by Tim Burton and starring Johnny Depp and Martin Landau which is based on the life of the famous B-movie director who was also a crossdresser. Perhaps best known as director of Plan 9 From Outer Space (1959) he also directed early cross dressing film Glen or Glenda (1953) which I may give a look if I can find it. There's definitely something I like about the RP way Depp says "I like to wear women's clothes. I just feel more comfortable in them." I did think about doing a full review of this but I think the time has passed but I may do in the future
  • I still watch most iterations of Ru Paul's Drag Race and the UK version has just started. Dakota Schiffer is the first trans queen on the show (the UK version anyway) and I must say her confessional outfit makes my little preppy girl heart jump. I always love the vintage queens especially if they go all 1960s and already I'm loving her outfits. 
  • On a similar tack, I've been watching She-Hulk recently and the character of her paralegal Nikki Ramos (Played by Ginger Gonzaga) is also giving me severe outfit envy. Business wear seems to be a thing of mine and also makes my preppy girl heart sing. 



4 comments:

  1. Thank you for keeping us posted! I do think of you, Terri, and I am stoked you went to a wedding in a dress!! I hope it was great for you all the way!

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  2. My opinion on Ed Wood. It is one of the funniest and heart touching movies of the last 40 years. The unrelenting optimism of Ed is inspiring. Ed knew who he was and was okay with it, and really he just wanted to make people happy with his films....which were awful - but he tried. The fact that he was a crossdresser was of minor importance to the main story just as it may be for many of us - that`s just an aspect of who we are. It is one of my favorite movies for it`s comedy, and helped inspire me to find myself saying it`s okay to be whoever you want to be and do what you love - just be a good person. I watch it a few times a year and I think I`m going to go watch it now. Thanks!

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    1. That's excellent. Glad the movie helped you. Certainly when I was growing up I was always looking for something that would chime with me and what I was feeling.

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